So did having to remember all this stuff get in the way of your having fun?
The last sentence is interesting. Certainly vaginas and penii are very different but they are also formed from the same tissue, with correspondingly similar nerves, and have a number shared purposes, namely getting off. Using "stuff" is like saying "people" - it's a term you use when the difference isn't important and in fact looking for differences is just confusing.
Honestly, all this stuff enabled me to have MORE fun. Being respectful allows for people to place trust in me and to lower their walls, which in turn allows for new connections and exchanges.
Your point about "differences" is right on the money. I was trying to do away with the specific focus people have on genitals and the labels and all the tension and emotion that comes with them... and bring it back to fun.
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The last sentence is interesting. Certainly vaginas and penii are very different but they are also formed from the same tissue, with correspondingly similar nerves, and have a number shared purposes, namely getting off. Using "stuff" is like saying "people" - it's a term you use when the difference isn't important and in fact looking for differences is just confusing.
Oh, and as usual, you totally rock.
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Your point about "differences" is right on the money. I was trying to do away with the specific focus people have on genitals and the labels and all the tension and emotion that comes with them... and bring it back to fun.